If your parent or relative is admitted to hospital, particularly in an emergency, we have got a checklist of things to sort out/take with you/know:
- Regular medication, staff will need to know what they are taking. Worth having a list of medication in any case. You may need to contact their GP for more advice.
- Advance Directive – do they have one regarding medical interventions, and a Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) instruction. Ask the GP if you don’t know. The hospital needs a copy of these documents, which the GP can send.
- For a stay in hospital, collect nightwear, slippers, a change of clothes and a wash bag (including denture fixative and case if relevant, hearing aids, reading glasses), something to read/do when they’re up to it.
- Let people know – visits from a carer, home help or other regular appointments may need to be cancelled for a while. Tell the neighbours so they can keep an eye on the house.
- If one of your parents remains at home – check that they are able to cope alone and can get to the hospital to visit. You may need to make interim care arrangements at home, so speak to their GP and/or social services;
- Keys, cars and stuff – have you got a spare set of house keys or car keys if neccesary?
- You may need to speak to the GP/hospital doctor and social services to arrange an emergency care plan when they are discharged from hospital (this can be provided free of charge for up to 6 weeks in England and Wales, 4 weeks in Scotland). The hospital should arrange all this – see What happens when its time to be discharged.
- Arrange for any pets to be looked after. And of course make sure the house is secure and everything is switched off; put a stop on any regular deliveries such as milk or papers.
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