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8 practical tips to help someone with Dementia to eat more

8 practical tips to help someone with Dementia to eat more

People living with Alzheimer’s or dementia often eat less than they used to.  Reasons for this may include problems with chewing, swallowing or digesting food.  We have compiled a list here of 8 practical tips for helping someone with dementia to eat more.

Sometimes people just lose interest in food. This can happen for a long list of reasons including loss of taste, the ability to smell, memory loss, and thinking they have already eaten.  Certain medications can also affect appetite.

Eating is affected as the disease progresses and ensuring someone living with dementia eats a nutritious meal, or to eat enough, can become a real practical and emotional issue for the carer.  We hope these ideas help.

1. The plate matters

What colour plate are you serving food on?

In a study conducted at Boston University, researchers found that patients eating from red plates consumed 25 percent more food than those eating from white plates. This appears to be connected with the way someone living with dementia sees food on a plate, and if you can’t really see food on a white background you are much less likely to eat it.

dementia eating plates

Yellow plates have also shown promising results, with the NHS trailing an innovative program across three hospitals in 2016.  The use of colour helps to stimulate interest in dementia patents, as often they have trouble distinguishing between colour.  If the food is too close to the colour palette of the plate, dementia suffers can also struggle to distinguish the contrast between the two and realise their is food to be eaten.

A company called Eatwell tableware have a fantastic selection of innovative table wear designer for those with dementia or motor impairment.

2. Make eating easier

At some stage in the dementia patients life, there’s a good chance eating will get harder, and if so using utensils can also become more difficult.  Consider finger food to help them eat more frequently, little and often.

Some examples include:

  • Fruits (Raspberries, Strawberries, Banana and  Grapes are great examples and have strong contrasting colours).
  • Nuts (Almonds and Brazil Nuts are protein packed and contain essential fats).
  • Crisps (Healthier options are available, even vegetable crisps).
  • Fish fingers, chicken pieces  (within reason).
  • Vegetables 

Making your parent feel comfortable as possible at the table should help with their eating, helping them to focus on the food. 

When you sit down at the table, sit directly in front of them, make eye contact, smile and wait for them to smile back at you. Then you can start eating without talking (You start first). Try to keep quiet, be patient , keep making eye contact and wait for them to follow your lead.

It’s important to remember that ‘being patient’ is the most important part here. You might have to do this for a while before it starts working.  Hopefully the more frequently you follow this routine the easier it will become for both of you.

4. Don’t get cross while trying to convince someone to eat

Trying to convince a person living with Alzheimer’s who is at the point of not eating, that they must eat is counterproductive. Trying to explain why is also detrimental. 

You need to be the food guide.  Your role as the guide is to show this person how to eat each and every bite, just like it’s the first time they have ever eaten.  Keep using strong eye contact and a nice big smile and not disrupt the person by talking.

It can be frustrating when you are trying to help someone and it is not working as effectively as you may hope.  It’s like teaching a child to tie their shoelaces, or of course, to eat their vegetables!  

They will watch how you do it and slowly copy, but if you don’t show them a demonstration they are not going to be able to learn. If you find yourself becoming agitated, take a deep breathe, and have another try.

5. Arrange the food on the plate

food arrangement dementia

You may need to experiment with different sizes, textures and flavours of food to see which the person responds to the best. Here are some tips to help you change it up.

  • Add variety in the colour of food, different colour vegetables help to really brighten up the food.
  • Try less quantities of food and fewer individual items on the plate.
  • Think about what types of food they have always enjoyed in the past.  Put it on the plate with another food right next to it
  • Cut up the food (especially meat) into small pieces
  • Change the texture of the food (potatoes could be mashed, boiled, baked for example)

6. Praise the food

“How is your dinner/lunch/breakfast?” – we all want to know if someone is enjoying their food.  If someone is visibly enjoying their meal it encourages others round the table to dig in.   

A simple ‘This food is delicious’  can  spark an interest in others  and encourage them to try their food. Try this the next time you sit down together, taking the lead by eating first and giving that positive comment right away.

7. Stop talking

People living with Alzheimer’s and dementia are easily distracted and can get confused if you try to get them to multi-task. We want to make the job of eating their food to be as simple as possible and for them to feel comfortable and relaxed while doing so. 

Stop talking to the person while you are eating with them, small comments about the food are beneficial but not too much. Make sure that they can focus on the task at hand, one thing at a time.

8. Eat small all day long

Contrary to what we believe, we do not need 3 main meals a day. Research shows that there is no major differences between 3 regular meals a day, 2 large meals a day or 5 little ones.

In fact 5 little meals can help to regulate steady blood pressure which is an added bonus. If you can only get your parent to eat small amounts, that’s not a problem as long as this is at regular periods throughout the day. It’s all about finding what works best for you.

Useful Resources:

Dementia Care – Support with eating and drinking (PDF)

A great tool that Carers can use is The DMAT (Dementia Mealtime Assessment Tool) “The DMAT enables carers to assess, select interventions and generate a person centred care plan to support mealtime eating abilities and meal behaviours in people with advancing dementia.” You can learn more about the DMAT and it’s benefits on their website.

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